Women
and Infrequent Orgasms
In our
society women have the opportunity to decide
between work, family or both. The June
Cleavers of yesteryear's media have been
replaced by smart, sassy, career oriented
women. Yet while we all imagine we're having
exciting sex lives like the cast of Sex and
the City, how many of us actually are?
Did you
know that 10% of women have never
experienced an orgasm, either by themselves
or with a partner? It's not a matter of
can't, but haven't. Many women just aren't
sure how to go about getting what they want
in the bedroom. So here are a just few tips
to get you started.
Masturbation is key in knowing what feels
good, especially if you've never orgasmed
before. This can either be done manually,
with a vibrator, or whatever way feels good
for you. Don't put too much pressure on
yourself to climax- as you explore your body
you will discover your triggers.
Once you
know what feels right for you, communication
with your partner is key. Let them know what
feels good. You don't even necessarily need
to have a conversation, if that makes you
uncomfortable - instead try body language
and reassuring noises when they hit the
right spot. Remember, you can't expect them
to know what's working for you if you don't
tell them, especially if you're prone to
faking.
In
addition to sexual communication with your
partner, communication in general is a big
factor. If you have any distracting
feelings, such as guilt, stress, or worry,
focussing on sex is a difficult task.
Getting these feelings out of the way,
although not easy, frees up your attention.
Sexual
positions with the woman on top makes it
easier for her to orgasm, because she
controls the speed and movements. Keep in
mind that only 30% of women regualrly orgasm
through intercourse- receiving oral sex is
the most common method to reaching climax.
While men
have increased opportunity to improve their
sex life, with prescription medications like
Viagra, or even surgeries, women have been
left in the dark. Until now, that is. If
you've thought about increasing your libido
but didn't know how, you should consider
trying
HerSolution Gel™. It feels like a lube,
but instead of using low-grade ingredients,
HerSolution Gel™ is made from high-quality
herbal essences, vitamins and butters. And
while it alleviates vaginal dryness like any
regular lube, it also increases blood flow
by dilating blood vessels, a sure way to
intensify your desire, and fulfilling it.